Will I go to sleep?
No, although almost all hypnotists/hypnotherapists use the word 'sleep' during
an induction, it is purely a signal to get the mind to relax very deeply, sometimes
referred to as 'hypnotic sleep' You may look as if you are asleep but your
mind will remain very clear and in control. (Should you actually fall asleep
it will probably be necessary to gently wake you up as no suggestions can take
effect during real sleep and time may be wasted).
Will a moment arrive when I lose control?
No, quite the opposite. This is the biggest, most widespread myth about hypnosis.
Powerful changes are made but only ones that you want. It may appear as if
subjects in stage hypnosis are being controlled, but in reality they are just
very relaxed and uninhibited, rather like people who are drunk (without feeling
remotely drunk). In fact, you will enjoy a definite feeling of increased control.
Nobody can be hypnotised against their will. There is a myth that weak willed
or simpler people respond more easily. In fact, statistics show that hypnotisability
usually increases with intelligence.
So how will I know I'm under?
'Being under' may not be what you've always believed it is. People go in and
out of trances almost every day and are not aware of it! You just feel mentally
very, very calm and content, relaxed, focused and alert, like during a good
film at the cinema. At these times the subconscious mind is accessible. It
often happens at times of physical activity, as for example, in competitive
sports. A tennis player may be having a poor game, then he/she suddenly relaxes
and just can't hit the ball wrong - increased concentration has created a light
trance and the brilliant shots are coming straight out of the subconscious,
as if someone else were playing.
Will I remember anything afterwards?
Yes, almost certainly you will. Even people who have been able to have operations
under hypnosis, and have felt no pain, will often chat about the experience
afterwards (and during!). Occasionally people recall very little or nothing,
rather like occasions when you cannot recall much or any of a dream.
What happens at the session?
First of all there is a detailed consultation in which you are able to talk
things over in complete confidence and give details of your problem(s). This
is often therapeutic in itself. A course of treatment will then be suggested,
the number of sessions that are required depending upon a number of factors
such as the type of problem, its depth and severity. I will then usually chat
to you about hypnosis so that you are feeling totally relaxed and are aware
that there is no possibility of losing control or consciousness at any time.
I'll ask you to sit in a comfortable chair and then get you to focus on something
such as a spot on the wall or my voice, to lead you gently into hypnosis.